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Buying Guide: Kids Kitchen Playset
Buying a kitchen playset can feel a little like a Goldilocks story. You’re searching for the one that’s just right – the design to make you and your little chef happy, the quality to last through the years, and all the features to enable fun, immersive pretend play. To help you find your perfect play kitchen fast, we’ve laid out all the factors you’ll want to consider before making the big purchase! Size & Counter Height First, be sure to measure the space you plan to put your new play kitchen – eyeballing it is not the way to go here! Even if space is tight, smaller play kitchens can squeeze into little spaces and are ideal for toddlers. As far as finding the right size play kitchen for your child, it’s tough to go wrong – even bigger kids will still enjoy playing with smaller play kitchen sets, and the littlest little will grow into larger kitchens. But if you’re looking for that perfect fit, go for a play kitchen with countertops that are about the height of their hips. Materials Most kid’s kitchen playsets are made of either wood or plastic. Plastic play kitchens often come in at a lower price point, but often at the cost of quality. Wooden children’s play kitchens tend to last longer, look more realistic to your kids, and (real talk) look better in your home. Color and Design Speaking of looking better in your home… there’s no reason you have to settle for a bright plastic eyesore in the middle of your playroom. Our selection of wooden play kitchens come in just about every style and color you could hope for means you can pick the perfect play kitchen to vibe with your home’s aesthetic. Your Child’s Interests Another thing you’ll want to match? Your kiddo’s interests and preferences! Maybe you want a gender-neutral design so your little guy doesn’t think of play kitchens as a “girl’s” toy. Maybe you’re looking to recreate your child’s favorite parts about the real kitchen like using the ice machine or looking through the window above the sink. Whatever the case, only you know the features that will make a play kitchen the perfect fit for your little chef. If you’re buying the play kitchen as a gift for someone else, be sure to ask their parents what special touches they would love to have! Accessories Most play kitchens come with at least a few accessories like pots, pans, dishes and play food. While those cute little fake cupcakes are something to consider, they shouldn’t make or break your decision. You can always add additional play kitchen accessories later. Extra Features Of course, the best thing about play kitchens is that they encourage good old-fashioned pretend play, but a few extra features like working light and sounds can make that imaginative play even more immersive. Beeping microwaves, working ice machines, and stovetop sound effects can add realism to your kids’ kitchen playset and make it even more engaging, though some parents prefer noiseless kitchen playsets (hey, we get it). From large corner kitchens to tiny toddler kitchens, from pretty pinks to calming neutrals, our line of kids play kitchens has something for every little sous chef out there. Browse our full collection of wood play kitchens to find the one that checks off your wishlist!
How to Choose a Backyard Playset
Adding a kids’ swingset to the backyard is sure to win you some cool points with the kids or grandkids. But before you can get to sliding and swinging, you’ve got to make sure you’re getting a playset that fits your yard, budget, and other needs – and that can get super overwhelming super quick. To help make things a little easier, we’re covering all the essentials of how to choose a backyard playset. So before you click that order button, consider these factors to make sure you and the kids get exactly what you want from your swing set! Safety First, thing’s first. Always buy from established, well-known brands that make safety a priority. And while any company can say they put safety first, look for a brand that backs those claims up. In addition to our in-house inspections, we make sure that every KidKraft product is safety-inspected by accredited independent labs. Size Time to break out the measuring tape! When you’re figuring out how much room you have for a playset, the most important measurement isn’t the size of the swing set itself. Rather, it’s the size of the safety zone, the area surrounding the playset that should be covered with a loose fill material to protect your kids from falls and injuries. You can find the recommended safety zone measurement for all KidKraft playsets on the product pages or installation instructions. Your Property Making sure you have enough room for the safety zone is priority number one, but there are other factors you’ll want to consider in your yard too. It’s important for playsets to be installed on level surfaces. Our tips for preparing your yard for installation can help you get there. If you can find room for your playset in a shady area that’s within view of your kitchen or living room window, that’s great too! (Though it’s not totally necessary, so don’t sweat it!) You may also want to double-check homeowners' associations or city ordinances that dictate where you can build a structure like a playset. Many have rules on how close you can be to a property line or utilities. Materials, Maintenance, & Durability You basically have three options in materials for your swing set: wood, vinyl, or metal. Each has a few pros and cons in terms of durability, cost, and maintenance. Vinyl playsets are often the most expensive option as they require very little maintenance. They can last for years, but as they age, it’s tough to spot dangerous safety hazards. Any rotting wood that might impact structural integrity is hidden beneath the vinyl coating. Metal playsets are usually your cheapest option, but they are prone to rust, so any paint chips must be quickly repaired. Wooden playsets and swing sets need a coat of water repellent or stain once a year to prevent rotting and weathering. As long as they get that, they’re extremely durable and can easily last from the toddler phase to the preteen years. For more info, check out our in-depth comparisons of wood vs. metal and vinyl playsets. Style & Customization Just because it’s for the kids doesn't mean it has to clash with your house or backyard decor. Wooden swing sets blend in well with the natural elements of your yard and can be easily customized and painted if you’re going for a particular aesthetic. (Check out this gorgeous DIY paint job of our Hilltop Swing Set!) With vinyl and metal playsets, what you buy is what you get as they can’t be repainted or customized, so make sure you choose a color palette you can live with! Play Features You have a ton of options for fun features on your playset like swings, glider swings, slides, tube slides, ladders, rock walls, monkey bars, towers and elevated play decks, attached playhouses, and sandboxes (whew!). Playsets that keep it sweet and simple will often come with two swings, a small play deck and climbing feature, and a slide. More deluxe options may include many or all of the features above. As you decide which play features are a must-have for your family, consider how many kids will be playing with it, how old they are, and how many years of use you want to get out of it. Whatever you go with, we’re sure the kids will love it! Age: How old should kids be for a playset? In general, we recommend playsets for kids ages 3 and up! By this age, they’ve developed the motor skills they need to climb, swing, and slide with minimal falls and bumps! Of course, younger kids go crazy for playsets too, and you may want to invest in one as soon as they’re old enough to sit up in a bucket swing on their own. Just know that they’ll need close supervision around the playset until they’re more steady on their feet. You can also try a toddler climber as an alternative to a full playset – they’re designed with toddlers’ abilities in mind, letting the youngest tots climb and play safely. Number of Kids If you have a large crew or if you just have a lot of friends and family’s kids come over to play, you’ll want to take that into account too. Obviously, larger playsets are usually able to accommodate more kids, but size isn’t the only thing that matters here. The number of features a playset offers also counts, and even smaller playsets can still be great for entertaining several kids at once. Ready to find your dream playset come true? We can help with that! You can filter KidKraft’s selection of wooden swing sets according to yard size, play features, number of kids, and price so that you can find exactly what you’re looking for!
Buying Guide: How to Choose The Best Kids Outdoor Furniture
We believe that kids’ furniture should be durable, adorable, and of course, kid-sized. And when it comes to outdoor kids’ furniture, it’s got to be ready for the wind and the rain too! How do you find something that checks all the boxes? Follow these six tips for choosing cute, quality outdoor furniture for your kids, and you’ll end up with something you and your kids will love! Match your outdoor aesthetic Well-designed outdoor kids’ furniture made with quality materials is way less likely to clash with your outdoor style. A hot pink plastic chair matches nothing, but pint-sized versions of your own “grownup” outdoor furniture are adorable. Tons of parents love our kid-sized Adirondack chairs for just this reason! They’re a popular style for adult outdoor furniture, but quality kid-friendly versions are tough to come by. Make the kids comfy If you actually want your kids to use the furniture you buy them, it has to be comfortable! Cushions, reclined seatbacks, and proper sizing are all factors to consider. If you’re buying online, read product reviews to gauge the comfy factor. Stay shady Sunburns are zero fun. That’s why built-in umbrellas and canopies can be lifesavers on hot, sunny days. Our kids’ picnic tables have shady umbrellas that are functional and adorable, and our kids’ outdoor chaise lounges are outfitted with umbrellas or three-sided canopies for maximum shade. Get enough for everyone Nothing turns the backyard into Tantrum Town like your kids fighting over who gets the cool chair. If you’ve got multiple kiddos, avoid the headache and make sure they all have an equally comfy, equally cool place to sit. Our double chaise loungers and table and chair sets are great for siblings! Read those product descriptions Not all kids’ furniture is built to stand up to the elements. Make sure the products you’re looking at are specifically advertised as outdoor furniture. (Some items might look like they’re meant for the outdoors but are actually intended for indoor pretend play). With wooden furniture, look for terms like weather-resistant or pressure-treated. For cushions and fabric, look for terms like waterproof, water-resistant, and/ or antimicrobial. Reading product descriptions will also give you a good idea of how to care for your outdoor furniture so it can last for seasons to come! You’ll usually want to store cushions in a covered area when not in use, and reapply a water repellant to wooden furniture once a year. Shop early if possible If at all possible, don’t wait until summer to buy your kids’ outdoor furniture. Shopping early can result in faster shipping time and a wider selection, and your kids’ furniture will arrive in plenty of time for those sunny days! Speaking of shopping… browse all of KidKraft’s outdoor furniture to find the perfect kid-friendly addition to your backyard, porch, or poolside!
When to Transition From A Toddler Bed to A Twin Bed
Wait, wasn’t it just yesterday that you were lowering the crib mattress for the first time? And now your little snoozer is suddenly big enough for their own twin size bed...or are they? We can’t slow down time for you (if only), but we can help you figure out if your kiddo is outgrowing their toddler bed and ready for the next step. Before we talk about when to transition, let’s understand the difference between a toddler and twin size beds: What is the Difference Between a Toddler Bed and A Twin Bed? We see some confusion on whether a toddler bed is the same as a twin size bed… especially if that twin bed happens to be racecar-shaped or princess-themed. But the difference between toddler and twin beds is simply size. A twin bed uses a twin-sized mattress, measuring about 38” x 75”. A toddler bed uses a standard crib mattress, measuring about 28” x 52”. Most parents who use a toddler bed simply reuse the mattress they had in their crib. Many crib mattresses come with an infant side that’s extra firm and a toddler side that’s a bit softer. Even this softer toddler side is still quite firm, and as kids get older, they might prefer a softer, cozier twin size bed. Here are some signs that your kiddo is ready for the switch: They’re approaching the weight limit for their toddler bed That 50 lb weight limit seemed so far away when your child was just a squishy little newborn that it’s tough to believe they’re already so big. But if you have a preschooler now, they might be close to outgrowing their toddler bed’s safety limits. Be sure to check the safety guidelines of your toddler bed and make the switch before they reach the upper weight limit, which usually ranges from 35-50 lbs. If you’ve lost the manual you can usually find the information easily on the manufacturer’s website. They always want to get in bed with you While there are tons of reasons kids like to sneak into mom and dad’s bed at night, one may be that they simply find your bed more comfortable than the super-firm mattress of their toddler bed. Getting them their own big kid bed may not solve all their sleep issues, but it just might make them more comfy-cozy and excited about sleeping in their own bed. They seem uncomfortable If you’re hearing thuds and thumps throughout the night, your not-so-little one may be hitting the rails of their toddler bed as they try to get comfortable. If they can’t stretch out with plenty of room to spare, or if they mention that their bed is too hard, it’s probably time to level up to a kids’ twin size bed. They’re about to be a big brother or sister! One of the biggest motivators for making the switch is an impending new addition to the family. If you need to turn that toddler bed back into a crib for the new baby, it’s the perfect time to transition your older child into their own big-kid twin bed. Even if they have a standalone toddler bed that didn’t start as a crib, pregnancy is still a great time to make the switch. By the time their new best friend arrives, they’ll already be adjusted to the change of their new bed. You’re moving or redecorating Whether it’s a big move or just a redecorating project, many parents prefer to take care of all the new adjustments at once by starting their kiddo off in the new environment with their new bed. Of course, follow your own instincts about your kiddo here. If you think they might be extra sensitive and resistant to change at this time, it’s okay to wait a little longer too! They express interest in a “big kid bed” Sometimes, your kids will let you know exactly when they feel ready to trade their toddler bed for a twin, especially if they have older siblings who have big kid beds of their own. To pique their interest, try reading a few books about the transition to a “big bed.” Big Enough for a Bed (Sesame Street) and Liz Fletcher’s A Big Kid Bed Is Coming are some parent favorites. Although they do show the characters starting out in cribs, they work well for transitioning from a toddler bed too as most of the focus is on the new, exciting big bed. Ultimately, no one knows your child better than you do. If you think it’s time for a twin bed, then it’s probably time. To help your child get excited about the switch, check out our selection of kids’ furniture together. You’ll find classic, durable styles that look great in princess rooms, superhero rooms, and everything in between. Sweet dreams, big kid!
Dinosaur Room Ideas
If you’re aiming to turn your kid’s room into a dinosaur-themed wonderland, we’re here to help! We’ve got budget-friendly dinosaur room decor ideas to help you design the perfect space for your little dino-lover to stomp, roar, and play! Salt Dough Fossils From Darlin South Salt dough fossils are a fun, educational craft that can turn into great decorations for a dino-themed bedroom! Add the finished product to thick frames or shadow boxes or add holes and ribbons to hang them directly on the wall. Prehistoric Wall Mural Unless you’re an artist, a DIY dinosaur mural probably sounds pretty out-of-reach. But this crafty mama from A Little Knick, a Little Knack figured out a way to make it happen with only minimal artistic skills and a few vinyl prints. (And feel free to swap the colors for something that matches your little one’s preferences!) Dinosaur Toys Chances are your dinosaur-loving kid has their fair share of dinosaur toys. Keep the cutest ones out on display to add to the theme… and because your kiddo probably plays with them constantly anyway! We might be biased, but we don’t think anything’s cuter than the wooden dinosaurs in our train sets! Roarin’ Rugs Yes, dino-themed rugs exist, and they just might be the finishing feature you need to tie together the whole dinosaur theme. Check out this cute washable option for those inevitable dinosaur-sized messes! Dinosaur Clothes Pole Dino Footprints Adding some dinosaur tracks to the floors or walls is easy, affordable, and fun! You can find plenty of vinyl dinosaur footprint stickers on Etsy or Amazon. Make it a Jungle From Melanie Jade Design Whether it’s a potted plant, a leafy mural, or some faux vines hung around the room, adding a little greenery can help make the room feel like a true dino jungle paradise. Framed Dino Art From Etsy Framed prints really drive the theme home, and your options are pretty much endless, whether you want to decorate with realistic dinosaurs or the cute-and-cuddly versions. And don’t forget to check out our full line of kids’ furniture for everything you need to bring the room together!
12 Outdoor Play Ideas for Kids
We like winter for all the cozy cuddles, but we love spring and summer for the sunny days outdoor play. Now that the weather is warming up, take your crew outside and enjoy a few of these 12 no-fuss outdoor play ideas! Build a sandcastle Sandcastles aren’t just for the beach! If you have a sandbox, break out your beach toys so the kids can perfect their castle-building skills in the backyard! Paint with water No, not watercolors – just painting the porch or their wooden outdoor play set with plain water. It’s a mess-free way kids can get creative, and the “designs” actually show up surprisingly well if the wood and concrete are dry enough. A bucket full of water, sponges, and brushes of various sizes are all you need. Splash around with water tables and sprinklers Are the kids feeling grumpy? Just add water! Something about pouring and splashing just seems to reset their mood, and it’s a great way to keep cool in the summer sun. We love the convenience of water tables and sprinklers when filling up a kiddie pool is too much of a hassle. Get imaginative Yep, the coolest kind of play is often the kind your kids come up with entirely on their own. And something about the outdoors adds a little extra magic to imaginative play. Kids get creative with natural objects they find, and their outdoor toys take on whole new roles. The swingset becomes a pirate ship, and the playhouse becomes a fox’s den. Just offer to play make-believe and enjoy watching what they come up with! Play the ground is lava The outdoor version of the floor is lava...you get it. Use anything your yard has available – from landscaping stones to patches of clover – as designated “safe zones”. If there’s still too much open space, add more safe zones by spreading out some beach towels or your outdoor furniture cushions. Of course, if you have an outdoor playset, be sure to use the monkey bars or swings to cross the sea of lava! Use a magnifying glass A simple magnifying glass lets your kids discover a whole new world in your backyard! (Just be sure no bugs get scorched in the process). Have a picnic Lunchtime can be playtime too when the kids get to set up their own picnic! Let them fill a basket or lunch kit and head outside! They’ll love it so much, they might even try those kale chips you bought. If ants are a problem, a kid-sized picnic table might be worth the investment! Get swinging Pushing your kiddo on the swing is a great time for bonding...but when they finally learn to swing by themselves? That’s pretty great too. They’re totally engaged, and you can spend a minute working in the yard or relaxing on the porch. Have a bug hunt Have the kids look for as many different types of bugs as possible. They can describe or draw what they see, and if the creepy-crawlies don’t creep you out, they’ll love showing you a few of their finds. Of course, you’ll want to supervise young kids who can’t recognize stinging and biting bugs they should leave alone. Watch the clouds Is it a little sentimental? Sure. But if you haven’t stopped and watched the clouds with your kids, you’re missing out! You’re guaranteed to hear something silly and adorable when you ask what the clouds look like. Play with the pup The family dog just might be an untapped resource for playtime. Even if your dog’s energetic years are behind them, your kids can still have fun taking them for walks or hiding treats for them in the backyard. Plant a garden Giving kids their own little area to plant flowers and vegetables encourages independence, patience, and curiosity for the natural world. Set it up in front of their playhouse for an even cuter effect! Need a few additions to get your backyard playtime ready? KidKraft has you covered with all the outdoor toy classics: swing sets, climbers, playhouses, and sandboxes, all made to last and look great in your backyard!
Creating a Safe and Fun Outdoor Play Area for Children
Have you come across the 1000 Hours Outside movement on your social media feed yet? It’s a mom-led mission to get our kids outdoors and playing as much as possible, and it’s sparking a passion in parents and caregivers everywhere for the benefits of outdoor play. Even for those of us starting with much less ambitious goals (1000 hours per year can sound intimidating at first!), it’s hard not to be inspired by all the benefits of nature, risk-taking play, and outdoor time for our kids. That’s why we’re passionate about making backyards as fun and kid-friendly as possible. Because, let’s be honest, nature trails and parks are awesome, but loading kids in the car is hard. To make those outdoor hours a little more attainable, here are some ways you can empower them to play and explore safely in their own backyard! Safety First Yes, risk-taking play is critical for kids, but we do want to make sure those are reasonable and purposeful risks. (More on that below!) So it’s our job to protect them from the serious dangers. Before you let the kids loose in the yard, you’ll want to: Identify and remove potential hazards. Think rusty nails, gaps in fences, hidden holes, etc. Discuss or remove natural hazards. There is something to be learned from a wasp’s nest, a bed of ants, or a patch of thorny plants. If your child is old enough, you can talk to them about staying away from these hazards but still let them observe them from a safe distance. If your child can’t understand or doesn't have the self control for that yet, it’s best to remove the hazards altogether. Properly install and maintain outdoor play equipment. Play equipment is ideal for risk-taking play but only if it’s properly installed (i.e. anchored to the ground on a flat surface and surrounded by a safety zone of loose-fill like wood chips). Supervise and set rules as needed. Child-led free play doesn’t mean no boundaries. Be sure to set clear rules where necessary and keep the kids within sight. Encouraging Active Play One of the greatest benefits of time in the great outdoors is that it nearly always results in active play. All that activity helps kids develop gross motor skills and get the exercise their bodies need, but the benefits don’t end there. Adequate active play is even linked to improved focus, sleep, and emotional regulation. Kids don’t need much to engage in active play – just a little space and a few well-chosen toys. Balls, frisbees, hula hoops, jump ropes, and similar toys are great budget-friendly options, and larger outdoor toys like swing sets and climbing walls provide a wider range of activities. Don’t forget that nature comes with its own “toys” for active play – digging in the dirt, collecting sticks, and splashing in puddles are all classic kid favorites. Nurturing Imagination and Creativity Without getting too sappy here, there is something magical about kids’ natural sense of awe in nature. When they marvel at a feather, dandelion, snail, birds’ nest, cloud, you name it, they’re fueling their imagination with curiosity and wonder. So as you play outdoors, help them slow down occasionally and notice the small stuff. They’ll love learning about it, and they’ll love incorporating these natural elements into their imaginative play. A few select outdoor toys, like a playhouse, gardening tools, a sandbox, a bug collecting kit, can fuel their exploration and imaginative play as well, naturally encouraging them to want to spend more time outdoors. Providing Opportunities for Socialization Ever notice how your kids can spend endless hours outside as long as they’re playing with peers? Hosting outdoor play dates helps your kids get all the benefits of active play, nature play, and social play at once. Outdoor play time is more likely to result in child-led free play (vs. the more parent-led activities that tend to happen indoors), letting kids practice their social skills as they make up their own games and activities. Balancing Risk and Safety We mentioned earlier that risk-taking play is so important but that risks should be reasonable and purposeful. So what do we mean by that? First off, reasonable risks are risks that may result in minor injury but not serious or life-threatening harm. So falling just a couple of feet from the low tree branch they were hanging on? Reasonable (depending on their age and physical health, of course). Falling from great heights or swimming unsupervised? Definitely not. As you help your kids stay safe, it’s important to use your own judgment while still giving them room to explore, take risks, and yes maybe incur a few bumps and bruises along the way. Next, purposeful risks are those that actually help your child learn, gain new skills, and develop confidence and self-regulation. So when kids see how far they can jump from the swing or if they can go down the slide backwards? They’re testing the boundaries of their own coordination and learning how to self-regulate. But when they run into a busy street or step on a rusty nail? There’s not a lot of purpose there (not to mention potential for significant harm), so feel free to completely remove those risks from the play space without feeling like you’re depriving your child of an opportunity for risk-taking play. The takeaways Outdoor play gets kids moving, helps spark their curiosity and imagination, and provides opportunities for social skill development and risk-taking play. And there’s no better way to build more outdoor time into your daily rhythms than by making your own backyard safe, fun, and kid-friendly. KidKraft’s line of outdoor toys and play equipment are designed to do just that. Shop our play sets, playhouses, climbers, sandboxes, and more, and start racking up those outdoor hours… You may just find that 1000 hours outside doesn’t sound so crazy after all!
The Importance of Unstructured Playtime for Children's Development
Pre school? Check. Soccer practice? Check. Piano lessons? Check. Ample amounts of unstructured play time? Ummm… Modern parenting is tricky – between academics, activities, apps, we have so many resources to entertain and teach our kids. So many that we sometimes miss out on one of the best teaching tools of childhood: unstructured play. Here’s what it is, why your kids need it, and how you can make it a regular part of your child’s life! Benefits of unstructured playtime So, exactly what is unstructured play, and why is it so important? Quite simply, unstructured play is child-led play time that’s not directed by an adult and doesn't involve screens – and it has some pretty huge benefits for kids’ development! Develops creativity and imagination A bored child is just a few minutes away from becoming a creative child! When kids are given the time and space to entertain themselves, their imagination kicks into gear. From dramatic play to building and crafting to inventing their own games, unstructured play is the secret sauce to unlocking your kiddo’s creativity. Enhances problem-solving and decision-making skills Want to help your child develop problem-solving, critical thinking, and decision-making? Give them time for free play! Seriously. When they encounter a problem, they rise to the occasion, getting creative with what they find or making something new. All the while, they're learning without even realizing it! Improves social and emotional development When kids get a chance to play together without any adult interference, they figure out how to communicate their ideas, take turns, share, and get along. It’s fine to help young toddlers learn how to introduce themselves or to help diffuse major squabbles, but in general, resist the temptation to hover over every interaction at the playground. Enhances physical development and motor skills Give a kid freedom to play how they want, and what will they do? MOVE. When given the opportunity and the environment, kids run, climb, explore, dig, move heavy objects, etc – no gym coach required. All of that movement helps support them in getting the exercise they need and developing strength and gross motor skills. Reduces stress and anxiety We know – the idea that our pampered little loves are stressed can seem laughable. But the fact is, when kids are overscheduled, over-screened, and don’t get the movement and play time they need, their mental health can suffer as a result. Free play activities help release pent-up emotions, boost mood, and increase self-esteem – especially when those activities involve lots of movement and outdoor time. Kids get a chance to have some control over their day, to shake expectations of doing things “right,” and to revel in the joy of just playing. Obstacles to Unstructured Playtime Implementing more unstructured playtime sounds super easy on paper – as in “Hey, go play and have fun!!” But in reality, modern obstacles can make it pretty difficult to achieve. Screens & Tech Today’s kids are growing up in a world where screens are everywhere, and if we’re not careful, those screens can rob them of play. These devices can be addictive in nature and make it hard for kids to engage in other types of play. Pressure to “Get Ahead” Sometimes, parents are made to feel like the only goal of the preschool years is to learn letters and numbers… or to train up the next big soccer star. Let’s be clear – there’s nothing wrong with encouraging kids in academics and extracurriculars, but a heavy focus on them can leave little time for unstructured play, which may not seem as "productive" or "useful.” If you’re feeling that pressure, just remember that the “soft skills” of childhood – ie. problem solving, emotional regulation, social skills, creativity, etc. – are going to be just as, if not more important to their success as students and adults. Safety Concerns Does unstructured play feel like a recipe for disaster? Remember that unstructured doesn’t necessarily mean unsupervised. You can and should still keep a watchful eye in public settings while letting kids take age-appropriate risks. Plus, a kid-friendly backyard and a child-proofed home go a long way to giving kids the freedom to explore without compromising safety. Packed Schedules Finally, there's the issue of time. Between work, household chores, and other responsibilities, it can feel like screens or scheduled activities are the only way to make it all happen. But unstructured playtime can be our best friend here! It’s a developmentally-friendly way for kids to spend their time while giving us a minute to load the dishwasher or pay the bills. Normalizing unstructured play in your home may take some time at first, but we promise, in the long run, it’s worth it for both you and your kids! How to Encourage Unstructured Playtime Fostering unstructured play is all about creating time and spaces that encourage creativity, exploration, and imagination. Here are some practical tips for making that happen: Craft a safe and stimulating environment: First off, let’s all take a breath and remember it’s okay to let kids be messy, loud, and a little bit wild sometimes. Outdoor time is perfect for this! Indoors, we can also provide them with open-ended toys like play kitchens, dollhouses, and other pretend play props – but remember, it's up to them to decide how to use them. Allow free time Sounds simple, but we know how easy it is to fall into all the sports, camps, and lessons. Guard against the pressure to fill every moment of their day with structured activities. Unstructured time is just as valuable! For some kids, it may be helpful to create a daily rhythm so they know when to expect free play time each day. Limit screen time If screens are your child’s go-to fix for boredom, adjusting to free play can be tough at first, but stick with it! If you feel like you need some help reducing screen time, we recommend checking out the American Academy of Pediatrics Family Media Plan Tool. It walks you through the process of identifying your goals and creating a media plan that works for your family! Encourage outdoor play Outdoor play is critical for kids’ physical and emotional wellbeing, and it provides endless opportunities for unstructured play. Whether it's on your backyard playset, at a local park, or on a nature walk, try to make time for it every day. Be patient and allow for boredom Unstructured play doesn’t always come easily. You can still count on hearing “I’m bored!” every now and then, especially from kids who are just getting used to independent free play. Encourage your child to persevere through boredom and frustration, modeling ideas for activities and, above all, keeping a positive attitude. Remember, this time is meant to be fun – harsh reprimands will only work against you in the end. Model unstructured play And lastly, let's not forget to have fun ourselves! Get down on the floor and build a fort. Run around the backyard. Make a mess in the mud kitchen. Even with play, kids learn by example. It may sound counterintuitive, but playing with your child will make it easier for them to engage in those activities without your help later. Plus, kids need a balance of independent play and warm interaction with adult caregivers. When you fill up their love-and-attention tanks by spending time together, they feel more emotionally secure and able to spend time on their own. So, there you have it – the challenges and joys of unstructured playtime. Let's embrace the chaos and creativity and let the kids be kids! Who knows what kind of magic they'll create when they're left to their own devices?
